little hobbit update

To celebrate his seventeenth month, Michael slept through the night for the first time in his life.

It’s quite a momentous occasion. Jake and I woke around 5 am, checking our nanny camera in shock as we realized we’d gotten eight hours of sleep for the first time in over a year. I feel like a completely different person…it’s amazing what sleep does to a body and soul!

Now, pray this is a habit that Michael will continue!

Michael’s vocabulary keeps growing in leaps and bounds. It would be impossible to list all the words he knows now. He picks up new ones every day. His current favorites, oft repeated, are “bagel”, “book”, “tractor”, “truck”, and “hot”.

Bubble beard

His current fascination is machinery. Trucks and tractors are his top two favorites, with cars, planes, boats, and trains following. He especially loves riding on the tractor/lawn mower with Grandpa. He often runs down to their house yelling “GRAMPA! VROOM VROOM!” and making a beeline for the garage. If Grandpa isn’t there, he’ll still climb all over the mower without him, rocking the steering wheel and bouncing on the seat.

He loves books and reading. He loves lift-the-flap books the most right now. We recently visited my favorite local used bookstore and he was delighted by their selection of board books. We plan to go back regularly: he seems to have inherited his parents’ love of books.

We switched him from a floor bed to a real bed frame and rearranged his room to make it a little more toddler friendly. He loves it, and we do too. Having two separate play places in our house has helped him play with his toys more.

He’s becoming even more active and energetic (which I didn’t know was possible). He’s constantly moving, running, jumping, climbing, and falling (intentionally or by accident). He wants to be moving at all times. He dances to music, tumbles on the couch, and sings along to songs. Whenever he falls or hurts himself, he says “BOOM” in the saddest voice you’ve ever heard until we give him a hug and/or kiss the boo-boo.

He’s obsessed with cherries — as I pitted them for canning, he kept sticking his hand in the bowl and eating them. Grapes are a close second. If he could live solely on fruit and bread, I think he would be happy.

Sleepy boy

He loves playing in water — his water table and wading pool have been life savers as the temperature rises. He has a tendency to try and climb in the water table and sit in it, or dip his juice pop in it.

He loves giving kisses, and always goes in with puckered fish lips, exclaiming MWAH! He does this with us, with grandma and grandpa, and with icons or pictures of Jesus.

He has a slight cold right now which makes him uncomfortable and snuffly. It’s unfortunate that it corresponds with my hand injury: both of us are not operating at 100% and wrangling a toddler with limited dominant hand mobility is a struggle, to say the least.

So I’ve dusted off screen time again, after a month of no TV. We’ve been snuggling and watching Brambly Hedge together during the mornings or late afternoons, once he’s tired of reading or playing outside. Even though I would prefer no tv, I still cherish these gentle moments and cuddles.

Happy seventeen months, sweet boy.

little hobbit update

Michael is 15 months old now, and he’s an active, adorable, mischievous, precious toddler.

The chickens were wondering where he got that egg

His language and communication has exploded — he has too many new words to record here. However, he has definitely learned “no”, and uses it exactly as often as you’d imagine a toddler would. He mimics words back to us often, and interacts with “Miss Rachel” whenever we have screen time: clapping and singing and dancing along. His current favorite sound is “VROOM” — he will enthusiastically make it whenever he sees anything with wheels.

His favorite person is still grandpa: whenever we’re at church and he sees my dad in the choir, he shouts GRANDPA over and over and immediately runs over to him. He does the same with DADA. It’s adorable, but makes participating in church services a little difficult — if grandpa or dada are busy (as they often are), his protests usually increase in volume until I drag him out to the narthex.

Matching with dada on Lazarus Saturday

Even with all the difficulties that come with having a toddler in church, I love watching Michael at church. He has a reverence for holy things that surprises me, given his age. Even if he’s upset or exhausted or fussing, whenever he’s in line for communion and reaches the cup, he immediately settles and is quiet as he receives the Eucharist. Even though he runs around the sanctuary, he stops before he reaches the solea (the platform in front of the iconostasis).

We’ve started weaning: day weaning is basically complete except for a short nursing session before naptime. We were going to wait to start weaning until after Pascha, but Michael went that way naturally with the help of nicely timed distractions from Jake and my parents. Night weaning is a different story…hopefully we’ll have progress to report next month.

Sleep is still abysmal. He’s always moving, always talking, always doing something — getting him to stop and be still enough to sleep is an exhausting wrestling match that we often repeat several times a night. Once in a while he sleeps for a three hour stretch, and we were elated and shocked when he slept from 9 pm to 3 am a few weeks ago. However, that hasn’t happened again. We’re hopeful might weaning will give us a little more sleep.

Being outdoors is Michael’s absolute favorite pastime. Now that the weather has warmed, we’re out in the garden and on our porch every day, soaking in the sunshine and spring. He loves his own set of garden tools (gifts from a dear family friend) and I have to keep a careful watch to make sure he doesn’t behead my plants with his zeal.

If there’s a puddle or standing water or any kind, he will find it. He loves putting rocks in puddles, or trying to climb into the dogs’ water bucket. We’re hoping to get him swimming lessons this summer to continue to foster his love of water.

He’s absolutely fearless — he plays with my parents’ dogs even though Max is twice his size. He loves sitting on my dad’s lap and throwing the ball for them. If left to his own devices, he would explore forever and never come back. I’ve often looked up from my gardening to see him halfway down our driveway to my parents’ house. I’m grateful we’re further back from the street.

Thankfully, he seems to have outgrown his hatred of riding in the car, and will happily play in his car seat without complaint for most drives. Longer drives are still a gamble, but overall our daily errand running is much more enjoyable for both of us.

A Pascha gift from my parents: he’s obsessed

He remains an adventurous eater: he recently had a bite of my spicy sushi and returned for more. His favorite foods are currently raspberries, mozzarella, grapes, pinto beans, bread of any kind, and blueberries.

I recently knit him a pair of socks from a limited edition self-striping yarn I purchased from a small business: they’re absolutely adorable and a tad bit big for him. However, I didn’t think about the fact they don’t have grips on the bottom…he took one step on our hardwood floor and promptly wiped out with a screech and a glare of betrayal. Good thing I made them large — we’ll have to wait until he’s a little steadier on his feet.

Watching him grow over the past month has been delightful — I look forward to seeing what sixteen months brings us.

nine months

I can hardly believe it’s been nine months since Michael’s birth. It’s as if I blinked and I have a baby bordering on a toddler in my arms. He’s a bit over 20 lbs now, and quickly outgrowing his 12 month clothing. He’s sprouted his fifth tooth, and I have a feeling more are close behind it.

Michael’s started waving back, and his baby babble has become quite sophisticated. Often he says “mamama” when he’s angry or upset, and “dadada” when he’s happy (I’m trying not to read into that too much…)

He’s incredibly agile and quick — I blink and he’s already across the room. He’s starting to try standing on his own, but much prefers crawling and cruising while holding onto something or someone.

His toy of choice is any sort of cord — shoelace, electrical cord, charger — you name it and he wants to put it in his mouth. It definitely keeps me on my toes.

“Helping” me paint his room

He’s also taken to growling at the vacuum cleaner. He loves growling and making what we call “dragon noises”, and giggles when we growl and roar back.

I love watching his personality develop. He’s incredibly strong-willed and bubbles over with joy. He’s intensely curious and loves to figure out how things work. And he’s gentle and sweet, especially with animals.

Michael loves animals: if a cat or dog will let him get close enough, he’ll pet them and excitedly screech until they’ve had enough. He’s remarkably gentle with them.

Jake takes Michael when he wakes around 6 am to let me get some sleep until he has to start his workday. They go on walks around the block, or play outside, or spend time in our house. I often wake up to adorable pictures such as this one.

Watching Jake become a father is one of the most wonderful things: he loves our son so well, and Michael adores him.

Snuggles with daddy

Watching Michael at church has become one of my favorite things. He loves being up at the choir stand with me (or grandpa), and when he gets tired of that, he crawls around and makes friends. He loves music, and when the choir is singing he often wants to sing along.

Happy nine months, my sweet son. I’m so glad I have the privilege of being your mother.

in which stubbornness is a virtue

We are nothing if not a stubborn bunch. Throughout this whole process of preparing the prefab house for us to move in, my father and husband (and to some extent, my mother and I) looked at the list of tasks that needed to be done and thought: we can totally do this ourselves.

Pros: we’re saving a lot of money, and we’re learning incredible skills along the way.
Cons: we are finite human beings with a limited amount of time and energy.

I continue to be in awe of my father, Jim. He’s a retired clinical psychologist, with no formal training in any sort of contractor or construction work. And yet, so far he has managed to (with my husband Jake’s assistance):

  • Plan out and dig the trenches for both the gas and electrical that we’ll need for the house (the electrical trench just passed inspection and the gas trench is being inspected today! Praise God!)
  • Lay the wire (cable) for electric and pipe for gas
  • Wrestle the wire into the meter box and the panel (Oh, and he hung a 200 amp panel because our house came with a 100 amp one!)
  • Connect the gas line to the house and prepare it for inspection / connecting to gas by pressure testing it
  • And probably more that I’m not able to remember right now

All the hard work is paying off. We have only a handful of things left to do on our end: build the steps, finish the painting, lay the floors, install the counters, and pass all inspections. Now we are backfilling the trench, and getting ready to build the front and back porch steps.

There is much outside of our control — so I focus on what I can control. We purchased the tile for the bathrooms this weekend, and I got paint for the starry mural I have planned for Michael’s ceiling. I have been chipping away at the painting — the master bedroom wall is finished, and the kitchen needs a last touch up coat before I declare it finished. It’s encouraging to see physical glimpses of the final product: the stack of tiles in the bathroom, the color on the walls; the boxes of flooring.

Slow, steady, stubborn progress.

Speaking of…

Michael is six months old, and has inherited the family stubbornness. He has unofficially begun crawling. He alternates between an effective army crawl and a stubborn, seal-like belly flop. Both are often punctuated by a screech. We’re not sure if it’s elation or frustration, and frankly, he isn’t sure either. We were hoping he wouldn’t become mobile until our house is finished — Pennet Melangell is the opposite of baby-proof. It’s full of nooks and crannies where kids and dust bunnies can hide for ages without being found. I will definitely be kept on my toes for the near future — nothing is safe from his curious grasp.

Michael has perfected his Spider-Man stance.

We still don’t have a move-in date, and PG&E gave us the disheartening news they probably won’t be able to get to our job until late September — a whole year since we placed our work request with them.

So we’re digging in our heels against discouragement and rolling up our sleeves. There is much we can focus on, though we won’t be able to live in our house. We’ll focus on the summer and fall’s gardening and preserving, and getting the new coop ready for our chickens. As difficult as the last year of waiting has been, it has been very fruitful. It has taught all of us that stubbornness can indeed be a virtue.

Pax Christi,

Rachel